Showing posts with label Mason. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mason. Show all posts

Sunday, July 26, 2020

Dear Mason: 4 Years Old

My sweet Mason Porter,
4 years with you have flown by! We are realizing more and more every day that we no longer have a toddler, but a boy & oh! How proud we are of the boy you are becoming!


 This year for your birthday it was very interesting. Our world was met with the coronavirus & we were quarantined at home. We had planned a whole Lion Guard jungle theme party. While we didn't get to have a big celebration with all of your friends, we still celebrated as a family & tried to make the entire day a special day for you. When you were opening your presents you asked "but where are all of my friends?" My heart shattered into a million pieces, but beyond that singular moment, you didn't seem to care. This was a big year for birthday gifts for you. We got you a big boy bicycle and you are doing such a good job riding it.
You are still small but mighty my sweet one. You're weighing in at 36 pounds (46th percentile) and standing 38 inches tall (6th percentile). We bought you some 4T clothes but honestly, you're still in 3T pants, shirts & 4T pajamas. Your shoe size has not changed since the fall of 2018, size 8. We have switched over to size 9, but you still wear some of your favorite size 8 shoes.
 
You've had a few first appointments this month. Your first eye dr. appointment followed by your first glasses and your first dentist appointment. You really impressed me with how well you did with those new situations. 
You have always been the one that takes a little longer to fall asleep, you need someone to sing or lay with you, it's almost like you love this life so much you don't want to go to sleep and miss out on a single thing. But once you are asleep you are out like a light. This year we seemed to have figured out what you need to make bedtime go smoothly.
You have completely phased out of naps. I'm a little sad, but your body does not need to nap. There are occasional days where you are grouchy and in need of a nap, but we have found if you do actually nap you are up until 11pm. Therefore, we have changed your bedtime to happen an hour earlier, 7:00. We have noticed when we put you to bed at 7:00 it is the perfect time for you & you fall straight to sleep. However, if we put you to bed at 7:30 we seemed to have missed the window and you take quite a while to fall asleep.

You're still a pretty picky eater. But I think you most definitely just get this from Mama. You will branch out and lick or try things but really you like to stick to what you know. However, I am very impressed with how well you try things now. Your favorites are: Peanut butter sandwiches, apples, oranges, steak, burgers, chips, breakfast biscuits, granola bars. Really you haven't met a red meat or carb that you don't like. Veggies well....you'll get there. You do like the broccoli leaves. but in moderation. You're also just not much of an eater. Most of the time you skip breakfast. It's always offered but a rare occasion when you actually eat it. If you eat a big lunch you will have a small snack and just pick at dinner. If you pick at lunch you will eat a snack and big dinner. So really you stick to about 1 big meal a day.
You LOVE LOVE LOVE to talk. In fact from the moment you wake up until you fall asleep you are generally talking to someone or something, even if its just yourself. If it isn't talking it is making noises or singing. You and Alexa play the quiet game quite often.
You are SMART son! You impress us often. You have a serious love for learning real life facts. At the library or at home you have no interest for reading fiction books. You only want to read nonfiction books about animals, vehicles or the world around you. You prefer shows that are about real actual life things like national geographic or truck shows with Daddy. And you seem to soak up any single thing that you ever hear. The other day you had a conversation with Daddy that went like this:
"Daddy is that a female mosquito or a male mosquito?"
Daddy told you he didn't know to which you then said: "I think it is a female because males eat nectar and don't bite but females bite." We of course had to google it but I'll be darned if you weren't right. You soak up every single little thing that you learn and are eager to share it with other people. Currently your favorite things to learn about are ocean life & animals. 
You have always been extremely inquisitive and that has not changed as you have grown. You love to watch the things around you and figure out how they work or how to make them work better.
You are very tender hearted. Rarely do we have to spank or send you to timeout. Generally we have to let know you the choice was not acceptable or say your name sternly. This normally breaks your heart immediately and you are brought to tears making sure we still love you. You are a pleaser, you never want to disappoint and you want everyone to be proud of you and happy. You will definitely rat yourself out if you have done wrong and we didn't notice. You get all of this from your Mama.

You are still just the absolute best big brother I have ever seen. Sure, there are times when Liam frustrates you or takes a toy that you were playing with, but overall you are the sweetest brother. You absolutely spoil him to pieces. If you have a toy he wants and you can tell he is heartbroken about it you will either find him another toy he loves or you decide that you having the toy isn't as important as his happiness. If he is sad you try desperately to find out what it is he needs and aren't afraid to let us know if you feel we aren't responding quickly enough to him. You love to try to comfort him by singing special songs to him or make him laugh. I hope one day you are able to see through our eyes how much Liam loves, you, admires you and strives to be just like you. You live to make him laugh and be his best friend. I think this is the singular reason that Daddy and I are happy with just the 2 of you right now. Your bond is just incredible and I hope you will always be the best of friends.
You are still a MAMA'S boy! You love your Daddy fiercely but you have a strong loyalty to Mama. If you think anyone remotely hurt my feelings or hasn't treated me the way you think they should you are not afraid to let them know you don't appreciate it. You are a snuggler and any time you are tired or sad or even excited you come to me and as for "mama nuggles." You will not go to bed easily if I am away & insist on talking to me before you can fall asleep. This means any time Daddy & I go out or I go out with friends I have to have a quick facetime so you can fall asleep. You and I share a very special bond & I love & treasure it more than you will ever know.

While you're a Mama's boy there are special things that you and Daddy share together. You boys share a huge love of the outdoors. This fall you guys hunted together so often!! You would be so sad if Daddy went without you and Daddy would feel so guilty leaving you behind that he didn't enjoy the times that he did go. You both have really enjoyed fishing and camping together too. Those are all things you are happy to let mom know she is not invited to. You also have a very fierce love for everything construction. You guys really have a fun time learning about construction vehicles and going to watch job sites together. When you grow up you insist that you are going to work with Daddy at Hilti, you also express often that you will not be going to school you're just going straight to work with Daddy at Hilti.

Speaking of school, I am in disbelief that you are starting Pre-K in the fall. It is one of those things I know you are far more ready for than I am. You are incredibly social and loved Vacation Bible School last summer, love Bible study days, Sunday School and playdates. You are no longer hesitant for us to leave you at classes. Even at MOPS this year you had no fear. If I ever doubt your readiness I just watch you in public. You have a strong desire to play with others your age and make new friends.
Mason Porter, if there was one thing I could say about you it is that you have the biggest heart of any child I have ever met. You love FIERCELY and for those you love you will not ever let any injustice happen to them. You are friendly to everyone that you meet and if you see anyone who is sad or upset you are very bothered by it. You have a unique way of seeing the good in everyone. You are always so excited to meet new friends, see old friends, let people know they are loved and make people laugh. You can tell when someone needs a laugh, when someone just needs a hug or you randomly like to come up and give me a kiss on the forehead saying "you know what you need a forehead kiss" because you know that's my favorite kind of kiss. With every passing year I see your pure heart grow even more & I hope you are always like that.
Every year I think, man this has been the most fun year yet & here we are again, I feel the same way, I thank God every single day that he trusted us to be your parents, that he blessed us with you. You are amazing, kind, sweet, adventurous, silly, funny, snuggly, kind hearted, full of energy, full of joy, brilliant, handsome and more than I could have ever dreamed of when I dreamed of my future children. You love deeply, you laugh loudly, you dream big, you love Jesus & you strive to make everyone feel welcome. You are a blessing every single day of our lives. And every single day I love you more than I ever knew I could love a human being!

Love,
Mommy

Thursday, April 30, 2020

Mason's 4 Year Old Questions

Every year on Mason's birthday we ask him the same questions. I love seeing how they change as he grows up.

What is your name? Mason Porter Brown
How old are you? 4
What is your favorite food? Grouper
What is your favorite color? Red and Blue
What is your favorite book? The one where Kion falls in the thorn bush 
Who is your best friend? Graham 
What is your favorite show? T.O.T.S
What is your favorite animal? A Bald Eagle
What is your favorite thing to do with Mama? Work out with her 
What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy? Fix the blue truck 
What is your favorite toy? My buffalo toy
What is your favorite thing to do outside? Jump on the trampoline 
Where is your favorite place to go? Disney World 
What are you scared of? Vultures 
What do you want to be when you grow up? A Construction Project Manager
What makes you happy? Mom & Dad
What is your favorite holiday? Halloween 
Where do you want to go on vacation? Disney World
What is your favorite song? The Black Keys
What is your favorite drink? Milk & Water
What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? Pancakes
What is your favorite snack? "Corella bars" (Granola Bars)
What is your favorite restaurant? The Seafood Restaurant 
What is you favorite movie? Toy Story

To see last year's questions go here: 
http://blakeandjennybrown.blogspot.com/2019/05/mason-3-year-old-questions.html

Thursday, May 9, 2019

Mason 3 Year Old Questions

As you are growing older and communicating easier I want to be able to give you a yearly birthday questionnaire to see how you grow and change. I hope I always remember the sweet way you say things and all of your favorites as you grow. I love you little man!

What is your name? Mason Porter Brown
How old are you? 3
What is your favorite food? Peanut Butter Sandwich
What is your favorite color? Blue
What is your favorite book? Good Night Tractor
Who is your best friend? Micah
What is your favorite show? "LightmingMcQueen"
What is your favorite animal? A giraffe
What is your favorite thing to do with Mama? Color
What is your favorite thing to do with Daddy? Ride in the blue truck
What is your favorite toy? "Lightming"
What is your favorite thing to do outside? Jump around
Where is your favorite place to go: To the zoo
What are you scared of? Bugs
What do you want to be when you grow up? A Fireman
What makes you happy? Giraffes
What is your favorite holiday? Christmas Eve
Where do you want to go on vacation? The zoo
What is your favorite song? John Deere Green
What is your favorite drink? A juice box
What is your favorite thing to eat for breakfast? A cookie breakfast
What is your favorite snack? Goldfish 
What is your favorite restaurant? Hmmmmm
What is you favorite movie? "Patopia" (Zootopia)

Monday, March 25, 2019

Dear Mason: 3 years

Dear Mason,
Oh my sweet Mason Porter, I cannot believe you are 3 years old!! As I sat down to write this it felt seriously just like yesterday that I told Daddy I needed to finish your blog before Liam got here. Each stage and age with you just seems to get more and more fun. This past year with you has just been the best!

You weigh 32.4 pounds (59th percentile) and are standing small at 35.25 inches (7th percentile) You've always been a short one, but you're pretty short and cute!! Your height reminds me so much of what my best friend's dad used to tell her: Great things come in small packages. And we think you're pretty great! Let's see, clothing is just a hodge podge for you little man! For pajamas you are right on that 2T/3T threshold. We've pretty much transitioned into 3T as the nights get warmer. For pants and shirts you're mostly 2T but your summer Tshirts are 3T so we are transitioning into those. You also got some 3T sweatshirts for next fall/winter that you are loving to go ahead and wear now, mainly because they are hooded and have pockets like Daddy's. Shorts are a whole different story my shorty boy!! I tried to put 3T shorts on you this week and they swallowed you whole! So I went and dug out the 24 moth shorts from last year and they fit you perfectly!
 
Your schedule hasn't really changed much since you were 2.
7/8:00- you generally start your day around this time, sometimes you will even sleep until 9ish.
Breakfast is hit or miss. We will offer you something when you wake up but you've never really bean a breakfast eater
11:00-lunch
12:00 Nap- I've tried to cut this back to about 1.5 hours, if I'd let you than you would nap 3-4 hours.
5:00- Dinner
Bath varies, sometimes you jump in with brother and other times you take a bath shortly before your own bedtime
8:00-books, prayers, bed

Bedtime has become a little more difficult. You take a while to wind down. We have dabbled in different things to make this go more smoothly but have yet to come up with a good solution. We took naptime away and let you have quiet time in your room but then you are super grumpy for the rest of the evening. We have cut your nap shorter but then you are incredibly grumpy when we wake you up for an hour or longer. We have also found if you are overtired you fall asleep quickly but you generally don't stay asleep. We are still trying to figure out the best fit for you in making bedtime work well. When Daddy is on a work trip you like to sneak out of your bed & into mine with me. Not going to lie, I LOVE IT!
  
You're still quite a picky eater. You really don't like things that are mush consistency. You've recently really started to branch out and eat new things. Your favorites right now are: Peanut butter sandwiches, yogurt, breakfast biscuits, granola bars, tacos, chili, apples, cantaloupe, cheese, grilled cheese, goldfish, pizza, pineapple, grapes & mac and cheese. We are getting you to actually try things that you might not like or have ever had before but you've always been a little bit of a pickier eater.
One of our biggest changes is you are potty trained! YAY!!! In December one morning I decided I was sick and tired of changing dirty diapers so I decided to go for it. You did better with a small potty. You're pretty consistently potty trained, but we still wear pullups when we leave the house just in case & you are not night trained. But that will come with development.

Last time I wrote your blog you were still teething but WE ARE DONE!!! (Just in time for brother to start getting his teeth) The past month you've been carrying around rocks & calling them your teeth. You will put them under your pillow for the "fang fairy" to come get them. Thank you Puppy Dog Pals for teaching us about the tooth fairy so young.

You have always been quite a talker & you have never really been short on words. That is still true to this day. You have a very large vocabulary that still sometimes surprises us. You are able to communicate everything that you need to us. There are still sometimes we struggle to understand certain things that you are asking for but you find a way to get through to us. You leave the s out of you s blends and I think it's the cutest thing ever. I know this is developmental so I'm just really enjoying the cuteness right now. Some of my favorite things you say that I want to never forget:
"Weeum"- Liam
"paprize"- surprise
"nuggle"- snuggle
"Witeming"- Lightening
"prentzels"- Pretzels
"nap it" snap it

One of the biggest changes that you have had over the last year is we said goodbye to sitters and Mama working. I have been getting to stay home with you full time and it has been the biggest blessing! I absolutely love getting to spend every single day with you! We've had some fun adventures, stepped out of our comfort zone & really gotten out and about and met people for playdates.

Staying home together has definitely shifted some things for you. You have always been the biggest Daddy's boy in the world! You still love your Daddy for sure! But you are definitely more of a Mama's boy. You are excited for Daddy to come home and to play with you or to take you to the garage. But for the most part you want your Mama. You love for us to snuggle or rock in the rocking chair together. And you are insistent that your Mama is the one to put you to bed every night.

Even though you are more of Mama's little guy you sure want nothing more than to be just like your Daddy. You do all things Daddy. You constantly pretend that you're off to work like Daddy kissing us goodbye and going to your truck. You even claim you work at Hilti. You wear a headlamp when you fix things just like Daddy does. You wear hats constantly like Daddy does, even insisting to wear his hats. Lately you've been claiming your hair is black just like your dads even though it's the farthest thing from it. You want nothing more than to be exactly like your Daddy and I couldn't think of a better man for you to be like.
    

You live life BIG! You have tons of energy and you  are an ON THE GO boy!! You don't slow down often, you like to constantly be moving, running, hopping, skipping, jumping, dancing, singing, whatever you can. You absolutely LOVE to dance and sing. Your favorite songs now are John Deere Green, Gangdum Style, Ghostbusters,, That Power, Get Low (clean version). You're quick to catch on to the lyrics of songs we listen to and love to proudly sing the words until we point out that we love your singing. If we're inside we can generally find you spinning circles in the living room or running circles around the house.

Although you don't slow down often, when you do you are a snuggly little man. You love to snuggle in Mama's bed or in the rocking chair with me. I absolutely love when you ask me to come "nuggle" you. Recently you've started to really love to be rocked in your bedroom in your glider. Generally you're the most snuggly when Liam has been demanding a lot of attention, you've just woken up or you're tired.
   
You love the outdoors still just as much if not more than ever! Since it has warmed up and the time has changed you really live outdoors from the time you get up until it's time to come in to get ready for bed. You love all things about it! The water, rain, mud, grass, sand, rocks, dirt, plants, leaves, all things nature. One of your favorite things is to go splash in mud puddles after a big rain. You also really love digging in my poor little Rose. If that little rose survives you and your brother it will be a miracle. You also have quite a rock collection from every single place we've ever been to that has rocks. If you spy a rock garden wherever we are you aren't leaving without one. You of course want to snag the biggest one you can find and I have to talk you down to just finding a small one.
  
You have developed a fierce love for your Daddy's Little Blue Truck. It's sweet actually, he has always loved it because it is the truck Poppy had when he was growing up and I think if it's possible, you love that little truck more than your Daddy does. You have begun referring to it as "your truck" and get very upset if your Daddy takes off with it without you. You 2 have had lots of fun with it this last year. You've taken many adventures on trails and spent many a night outside fixing it up. Your very favorite thing to do is check the oils and fix the wheels.


Speaking of fixing, you are a Mr. Fix It! You are OBSESSED with all things, construction, tools & fixing things. You have actually figured out how to use a screwdriver & wrench and you loved to tinker with or figure out how to fix things. If anything is broken you will give it your best shot on fixing it with or without Daddy.
  
Your favorite toys or interests right now are construction vehicles, trucks, cars, firetrucks, police officers legos, paw patrol toys, trains & stuffed animals. Your favorite shows are Blippi, Paw Patrol, Puppy Dog Pals, Mickey Mouse, Tayo, PJ Masks, Daniel Tiger, Fireman Sam & Little Baby Bum. We've put a movie on a couple of times but you just aren't interested in sitting still that long. While you have lots of shows you like, we really have cut out a lot of tv time from our day. I have noticed a big difference in you when we don't watch tv. You are much happier. We have started having designated short periods of screen time with the majority of the day we listen to music.
  
You my son, you have become the BEST big brother!! From the moment you met him in the hospital you were in love and his biggest protector! You refused to let anyone else come in and touch him if you were there because he was your baby. You've protected and looked after him ever since! If he is tired or hungry you are quick to tell me so! And generally you are correct about what he needs. You also will run and get him a pacifier or a toy if it isn't time to eat or sleep. You are very modest sometimes about how much you love little Liam but you love him BIG! I will sometimes catch you grabbing his little cheeks saying "awe you're such a good boy! you're so cute." or other sentiments like that. Lately as he has become more mobile in walking or crawling you are getting a little more frustrated with him as his favorite thing to do is take whatever he has and taunt you with it. We have had scuffles here and there, but it is getting better as time goes on. The love each of you have for each other is big & I pray that you always have such a good friendship. You were born to be a big brother, best friend & protector & have completely rocked the role since you took that title on.

    

I feel like I could write a novel on you this last year. You have grown up and learned so incredibly much. I could not be more proud of the little boy you are becoming. True to what I say in every letter, you live and love big Mason! You truly have shown me how to find the joy in even the littlest of things. You are energetic, fun, friendly & have the biggest heart. You love to learn, explore & play. I pray that we can continue to be the best parents for you that we can & I pray that you continue to live and love big. We love you Mason Porter Brown! And continue to just love you more and more with every passing day! I can't wait to see the exciting growth and development and the personality you develop over the next year!
Love,
Mommy (Daddy & Liam too)